Excerpt@Relationship and sex

Amos3:3"Can two walk together unless they agree?

Relationships are probably the most complex things we deal with in our lives as humans. Our relationship with God, parents, siblings, extended, family, friends etc can be complicated because of our values and belief. Our values and belief are guided to help us make decision about actions,behaviour life choices. Our relationships reflect our values and how we feel about God and people

When there is a change in our belief we receive new information and also have new experience which may also change our perception about relationship.

Every relationship is unique and should be centered on love. When you express love towards someone, you are expressing God towards that person because God is love, and he that dwells in love dwells in Him, 1John4:16.

                                                                               Azeez Adebayo Olufemi

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