Excerpt : Relationships and Sex

Sex is the most intimate and tender physical expression of emotional love that can be achieved by a man and woman in marriage relationship. Our continued existence is dependent on it. It is good, the pleasure and the fun is in the arena of the marriage. Copulation ranges from purely reproduction to emotional bonding. It plays a strong role in the marriage relationship, and it is a way to share pleasure and strengthening emotional bond to help interaction between couples.   
It is one night of stolen pleasure worth a lifetime of wonders or regret.  Do you want to miss the true joy of sex by throwing it away on someone who is using you to satisfy his or her selfish desire? Many people have made decisions about sex that they have regretted for the rest of their lives. God is giving us opportunity to save ourselves from all pains. Will you make up your mind today, once and for all, to save yourself for marriage and experience the joy of sex just as God intended? Choices have consequences and God wants to spare you the pain of the wrong choice.  If someone really loves you, he will want the best for you. The best is always God’s will and that is to wait till marriage.
Sex is a good thing; it must be, if God created it. The only way to keep it a “good thing” is to follow God’s guidelines. God will reward you if you choose to honour Him and save sex for its proper time and place ‘Marriage’.
 Have we forgotten so quickly that God created us to love and to be loved?  He created the feelings and emotions because of love.
 Our bodies are such a wonderful exhibition of God’s incomprehensible skill, power and goodness. God inspires us with the deepest feelings of admiration and awe, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Who gazes even upon a model of our anatomy with wonder and awe? Who could dissect a portion of human frame without marveling at its delicacy, and trembling at its frailty?
And God said, “let us make man”, it is evident that God intends to impress the mind of man with a sense of something extraordinary in the formation of his body and soul when He introduced the account of His creation. Yet, there is variety and complication in the parts, a delicacy of structure, a nice arrangement, a judicious adaptation of different members to their offices and functions, a dignifying of man and a perfection of the whole, which are sought for in vain in all other creatures. Eccle7:29 “Lo this only have I found that God hath made man upright, but they have sought out many inventions”.
When God created us, He gave us the sense of feeling, so that we can feel loved and be loved. There was an emotional connection that Adam felt the first time he met Eve. It was the same emotional connection that made him declare his love to her “the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh.” Adam discovered that God’s intention to create a woman for him was majorly because of loneness and procreation, and this cannot be achieved unless they have sex.
 Sex is a good deal more enjoyable in a loving and caring marriage relationship and this is true for both men and women.
 Have you ever thought about the possible advantage of sex in a healthy marriage relationship, there is an unexplainable emotional connection and physical connection sex between husband and wife.
Sex lowers your heart rate
Lowered blood pleasure
Improves your sleep
Improves hormonal level
Helps bladder control
Reduces chances of prostate cancer
Boosts libido
Sex increases intimacy invariably improves the relationship between husband and wife.
It joins the couple together in body, soul and spirit.
It improves the confidence level invariably increase the self-esteem of the couple, gives a sense of assurance and security of the couple.

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